In a fast-paced society, the pressure to be productive has become the norm. Parents often worry about their children’s future success, sometimes at the expense of enjoying the present moment. This section explores how to shift from external pressures to internal motivation, helping children develop confidence, resilience, and the drive to pursue their goals by practicing at home.
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Getting unstuck from insecurity
S.H.I.N.E. a light on internal motivation (Seen. Heard. Independent. Nurtured. Engaged)
Is “Do your best” an effective motivator?
C.A.R.E. can motivate action (Connect. Acknowledge. Resolve. Empower)
Applying the C.A.R.E. approach
Motivating toddlers and young kids
Motivating teens
Motivating through routines
Motivating using visual and verbal cues
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